What if I told you that you could:


  • Eliminate competition naturally by defining a lane that’s all your own

  • Attract more dream clients, customers or donors outside your network

  • Stand out as a thought leader in your industry

  • Land more media opportunities

  • Promote yourself and your business with clarity and confidence

  • Charge a premium value for your offerings

  • Grow a community of fans and champions for your work


  • Eliminate competition naturally by defining a lane that’s all your own

  • Attract more dream clients, customers or donors outside your network

  • Land more media opportunities

  • Promote yourself and your business with clarity and confidence

  • Charge a premium value for your offerings

  • Grow a community of fans and champions for your work


  • It takes you 20 minutes to explain what you do, only to lose your audience halfway through. You crave a narrative that pulls it all together and makes you more influential and profitable.

  • If you could develop a pitch that helps people instantly get what you do and why it matters, your business would really take off.

It's time to stop holding yourself back.

You were never meant to fit in, you were born to stand out.

Photo of confident, authentic black woman leader speaking in front of audience

Here's why you've struggled with visibility and not achieving the growth and impact you want.

  • You lack clarity. Clarity creates confidence. You know intuitively what you offer is uniquely valuable but it seems impossible to describe.

  • You lack the words to talk about yourself and your work in a powerful way. If you could crystallize the magic of your work into words, lightbulbs will start to go off.

  • You catch yourself saying, “am I really qualified to do that.” We all have the voice of the imposter. In this accelerator, you'll send your imposter to the backseat – where it belongs.

  • Marketing and self-promotion give you heebees. You don't want people to believe you’re full of yourself, so you procrastinate or don’t promote at all. It keeps you a best-kept secret. There is a way to authentically market yourself that creates a win-win for your audience.

  • You dodge the spotlight. Your message isn't out where your people can find you and you're missing out on bigger opportunities.

Here's why you've struggled with visibility and not achieving the growth and impact you want.

Meet Your Instructor

Hi I'm Stephanie. I’m a storytelling coach, writer, and inclusion activist. I help women, BIPOC and square peg entrepreneurs and leaders turn their zones of genius into a movement-worthy message that grows their visibility and impact with joy and confidence.

 

Everyone has a unique story and message that can change the world. But it’s hard to crystallize it on your own. Trust me, I’ve been there.

 

I’ve spent 15+ years making marketing magic for do-good startups and organizations like Planned Parenthood and Teach For America. When it came to promoting myself – I’d get tongue-tied and hide out. But when I uncovered my authentic brand story, I could speak powerfully about what I do to anyone.

 

Since 2019, I’ve coached others to go from best-kept secret to undeniable authority in their fields. My Own Your Message program taps my experience as a former journalist, public radio producer, writing teacher and marketing director to help you mine the hidden gems of your story to create a unique lane that’s all your own.

INTRODUCING

People don’t just buy what you do, they buy why you do it. You possess a combination of personal and professional experiences no one else has. When you craft a story that brings together these unique elements, you define a lane all your own. And eliminate competition naturally.

The world says, “you’re not enough.” Without our own story to counter it, even the most high-achieving people can start to believe it. When you crystallize the story of your true value, you gain natural confidence and clarity to do the work you were meant to do on a larger scale.

Connecting your unique brand story to your product or service increases its value and helps it stand out naturally.

Stories spark instant trust and connection that attract people to hear a new perspective, consider an alternate approach, take action.

Our brains crave stories like chocolate. Science has proven that stories fire off empathy chemicals that lead to more giving to strangers. Think about the potential you have to inspire more change when you tell irresistible stories, rather than facts.

INTRODUCING

People don’t just buy what you do, they buy why you do it. You possess a combination of personal and professional experiences no one else has. When you craft a story that brings together these unique elements, you define a lane all your own. And eliminate competition naturally.

Connecting your unique brand story to your product or service increases its value and helps it stand out naturally.

Stories spark instant trust and connection that attract people to hear a new perspective, consider an alternate approach, take action.

What students say...

“Own Your Message helped me clarify my business mission and gave me more confidence in how to approach potential clients.

 

It's given me a structured approach to figure out how to connect with my audience. This will save me time and give me concise, effective ways to community my mission."

- Freda Lin, Co-Founder, YURI: An Asian American Education Project

THE COURSE INCLUDES:



Lifetime access to course modules, templates and future enhancements.

A clear, concise pitch that captures the best of who you are, what you do, and why it matters to your audience and the world.


An irresistible bio story that builds instant connection and trust with your audience – in-person and online.


A signature manifesto of pitch-worthy ideas that positions you as a go-to thought leader in a lane all your own.


An actionable marketing plan to activate your story to attract dream clients and grow your impact.

01: The Secret Power of Storytelling

Learn the ins and outs of the science of storytelling to become a VIP: very influential person.

02: The OYM Mindset

Develop a new paradigm that turns marketing into a service you deliver with joy, authenticity, and power.

03: Mine Your Hidden Story Gems

Using strategic prompts and intuitive exercises, you’ll uncover gems that illuminate unique value from your personal and professional experiences.

04: Sifting Your Best Gems

Using strategic prompts and intuitive exercises, you’ll uncover gems that illuminate unique value from your personal and professional experiences.

05: Write Your Signature Manifesto

Learn 4 techniques that reveal your unique thought leadership for the world. Your manifesto represents your distinctive point of view and ideas you’ll become known for.  Your manifesto is an unlimited well of ideas that can be turned into Ted talks, books, articles, media talking points, and marketing content.

06: Identify Your Dream Person

Your story is a magnet for your most aligned client, donor, or partner. This module helps you identify who your true dream person is so you can captivate superfans quickly.

07: Craft Your CIRCLE Bio Story

Using my signature CIRCLE framework, you’ll create a master bio that inspires your dream audience to emotionally connect with who you are, your passion and purpose, and the full picture of you as an expert and a human.

08: Build Your Brand North Star

Your Brand North Star serves as a solid foundation for all your marketing and PR that ensures your message stays deeply aligned with you and your purpose. It includes your mission statement (as a story), core values, CIRCLE bio story, and signature ideas.

 

You’ll also learn 3 quick-action techniques to infuse your unforgettable story into your existing marketing and publicity activities.

And to make sure you're supported every step of the way,

you'll also get access to:

Exclusive Bonus #2

INCLUDES:

"I landed 2 keynote speaking gigs with global brands" 

- Pam Dibbs, Keynote Speaker, Coach & Humorist, Dibbs on Life 

  • 8 learning modules

  • 30+ online training videos

  • Templates + playsheets

  • Gallery of examples

  • Lifelong access to Own Your Message course upgrades

  • Course Workbook filled with time-saving playsheets, prompts and templates.

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MOST FLEXIBLE

  • 8 learning modules

  • 30+ online training videos

  • Templates + playsheets

  • Gallery of examples

  • Lifelong access to Own Your Message course upgrades

  • Course Workbook filled with time-saving playsheets, prompts and templates.

Meet Your Mentor

What students say...

Here's what students are saying about Own Your Message...

“Own Your Message helped me clarify my business mission and gave me more confidence in how to approach potential clients.

 

It's given me a structured approach to figure out how to connect with my audience. This will save me time and give me concise, effective ways to community my mission."

- Freda LinCo-Founder

YURI: An Asian American Education Project

"The Own Your Message group program provoked so much insight. I was able to bring 3 seemingly disparate parts of myself (executive coaching, standup comedy and study of death) into a strong narrative that helped me land 2 keynote speaking gigs with global sportswear brands."

- Pam Dibbs, Keynote Speaker, Coach & Humorist, Dibbs on Life 

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